• The Easiest word to say
• Those who can't say "NO"
• Being used
• One of great help
• If ONE needs help
• Phone calls non-stop
• First symptoms
• Is that so hard?
• Profitable friendship
• Afraid of hurting people
• Your own job to do
• Your own private life
• Polite "NO"
• No "NO"=more friends
• The Matter of respect
• When was the last time...?
• Value your time
• A Workhorse
• Spit on your own blanket
• "Yes" or "No"
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Afraid of hurting people

There are a good number of reasons for why it is that hard for people to say "NO" and they keep wasting their time for things that are of no use for them, for things other people ask them to do. Though, among the broad variety of those reasons there is one most important reason. The reason we are talking about is fear for hurting other people.

People can't say "NO" and save their time with that "NO" because they are afraid o hurting other people, they believe those people will get offended with their refusal and so – they are trapped in no-"NO" trap. And they will remain their suffering till the day they will realize the whole idea of what is going on. Do not be afraid of hurting other people.

Do not be afraid of hurting other people because they are nor afraid of hurting you, they are not afraid of taking your time away from you and they are not afraid of being too insolent towards you. The only thing they care about is their own interest. And it is impossible to hurt one who cares only about his or her own interests.

Don't be afraid of hurting those who are not afraid of hurting and using you. Even in case such a person will never talk to you again – there is nothing you will lose. There is nothing to lose. Those people who use you are not friends of you and so it is not a big deal to lose such people.

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Be a good friend and be a good colleague and try to help those people who are in need. Though, make sure that things they are asking you to do are really of that importance they say those things are. And make also sure that they not using you but they really need help.

You can help those people who really need you help and not spitting on your own blanket with that activity. It is common that people have their own plan and their schedule about their job and about their life.

Don’t be a workhorse; there is no need for you to be like that. It is okay to be a workhorse in case you do something that will provide you with a number of merits of your activities, though it is stupid to be a workhorse for those people who enjoy their lives while you are doing their job.