• The Easiest word to say
• Those who can't say "NO"
• Being used
• One of great help
• If ONE needs help
• Phone calls non-stop
• First symptoms
• Is that so hard?
• Profitable friendship
• Afraid of hurting people
• Your own job to do
• Your own private life
• Polite "NO"
• No "NO"=more friends
• The Matter of respect
• When was the last time...?
• Value your time
• A Workhorse
• Spit on your own blanket
• "Yes" or "No"
• Dating sites
• Dating websites

Being used

How does it fell being used? This is the question one has to ask him or herself. This is the question you know the answer for sure, though you might have never asked yourself about it. one way or another, though you never asked yourself about it you know for sure about all those feelings you have inside when you feel that people use you again.

It is not a very pleasant feeling and it may barely be called as neutral feeling as well. Though, it may and will be recognized as the most humiliating feeling. You feel people use you but there is nothing you can do in order to make people stop using you. Being used is the most terrible feeling one can feel and this feeling goes nowhere.

Being used means being non-respected by all those people who use you for your own purposes. Incase you think they are grateful for what you do for them you are extremely wrong. They will never be grateful for what you do and they will never appreciate the jib you do for them. Moreover, it is them they consider smart to use you for their own purposes.

People who use may only consider you to be too stupid and weak to say "NO" and to refuse their requests. And believe me, they would say you "NO" in case your request appeared to be at least a tine problem for them, they would refuse you even if it would take a couple of minutes of their time to do the job you ask them to do.

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Be a good friend and be a good colleague and try to help those people who are in need. Though, make sure that things they are asking you to do are really of that importance they say those things are. And make also sure that they not using you but they really need help.

You can help those people who really need you help and not spitting on your own blanket with that activity. It is common that people have their own plan and their schedule about their job and about their life.

Don’t be a workhorse; there is no need for you to be like that. It is okay to be a workhorse in case you do something that will provide you with a number of merits of your activities, though it is stupid to be a workhorse for those people who enjoy their lives while you are doing their job.