No "NO"=more friends

There are also people who are thirsty for having more friends. In most cases they are people who were always ignored by others and so they are thirty to feel how it taste to be popular and to have a lot of friends. For this purpose they try to do all those things people ask them to do, they believe it is a good base for friendship and so on and so froth.

Though, they are wrong. There is no way for one to be respected and appreciated in case he or she does the entire job people ask him or her to do. No way for one to gain respect and friendship through humiliating. The only relations one will get with the help of such a policy are the relations of would-you-be-so-kind kind.

Such relationships leads nowhere and one is wrong when calling friends those people who use him or her. The very first moment one will need a help from them he or she will barely find a one who would help. The best way to find friends who will respect you is to show people that you are a person of a character and you have your own mind.

Never try to find friends like that; you don't need friends like them. There are a lot of people in the world who would be glad to use you for their own purposes. So, there is no point in applying efforts for this purpose. Friends are those people who care about you but not about things you can do for them.

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Be a good friend and be a good colleague and try to help those people who are in need. Though, make sure that things they are asking you to do are really of that importance they say those things are. And make also sure that they not using you but they really need help.

You can help those people who really need you help and not spitting on your own blanket with that activity. It is common that people have their own plan and their schedule about their job and about their life.

Don’t be a workhorse; there is no need for you to be like that. It is okay to be a workhorse in case you do something that will provide you with a number of merits of your activities, though it is stupid to be a workhorse for those people who enjoy their lives while you are doing their job.