• The Easiest word to say
• Those who can't say "NO"
• Being used
• One of great help
• If ONE needs help
• Phone calls non-stop
• First symptoms
• Is that so hard?
• Profitable friendship
• Afraid of hurting people
• Your own job to do
• Your own private life
• Polite "NO"
• No "NO"=more friends
• The Matter of respect
• When was the last time...?
• Value your time
• A Workhorse
• Spit on your own blanket
• "Yes" or "No"
• Dating sites
• Dating websites

Profitable friendship

They are not just people you work with who use you as a one who can do a lot of job for them. They are also friends who befriend with you in order to get some profits of this friendship. It is actually hard to call such relationships a friendship, friends never act like that. Those people only pretend being a friend for you, though indeed they are not.

It is common for people to pretend like they are friends for you as it makes easier for them to use you for your own purposes. It is easier to make a friend do some job for you than to ask someone who is a stranger for you. It is impossible for such relationships to be a friendship, it is impossible for such people to be friends, it is better to get rid of such a friendship.

Such friends never greet you with some fests and even if they do, they greet you in the same way they greet other strangers. They rare ask you to come in case they have some kind of holiday at home and they rare spend their time with you. Such friends need a profit they get from your friendship but they don't need you. They can replace you with anyone else.

So, if you feel like your friend is using you it is important for you to analyze the friendship you have and to realize what to do. In case he or she always asks you to do him or her favor and never next to you when you need help – get rid of such a friend, he or she is not actually a friend for you.

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Be a good friend and be a good colleague and try to help those people who are in need. Though, make sure that things they are asking you to do are really of that importance they say those things are. And make also sure that they not using you but they really need help.

You can help those people who really need you help and not spitting on your own blanket with that activity. It is common that people have their own plan and their schedule about their job and about their life.

Don’t be a workhorse; there is no need for you to be like that. It is okay to be a workhorse in case you do something that will provide you with a number of merits of your activities, though it is stupid to be a workhorse for those people who enjoy their lives while you are doing their job.