• The Easiest word to say
• Those who can't say "NO"
• Being used
• One of great help
• If ONE needs help
• Phone calls non-stop
• First symptoms
• Is that so hard?
• Profitable friendship
• Afraid of hurting people
• Your own job to do
• Your own private life
• Polite "NO"
• No "NO"=more friends
• The Matter of respect
• When was the last time...?
• Value your time
• A Workhorse
• Spit on your own blanket
• "Yes" or "No"
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When was the last time...?

If you still think that those people who ask you about help are really friends of you try to recollect in your memory when was the last time. Try to recollect all of those last times that are so precious for you. Try to realize when was the last time when at least one of them was of help for you in case you needed a help?

When was the last time you were in need of help and asked them to help you? What? You've never asked them about help? Why is it so? Why can't you ask your friends fir help? Oh, may be because you feel they are not friends for you indeed. In case you were asking them about help than try to recollect in your memory when was the last time they helped you?

And try also to recollect in your memory when at least one of those friends was wondering about how you feel or about what is going on in your life? It is not like "Hi, how are you?" when meet each other but it is like really care about you. Were they listening for you when you were answering their "Hi, how are you?". I bet they don't. They just don't care about it.

See, there was no last time; there never even was the first time. They are people who simply never care about you and things that going on in your life. They don't care about it. The only thing they care about is if you won't be behind with doing a job they asked you to do.

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Be a good friend and be a good colleague and try to help those people who are in need. Though, make sure that things they are asking you to do are really of that importance they say those things are. And make also sure that they not using you but they really need help.

You can help those people who really need you help and not spitting on your own blanket with that activity. It is common that people have their own plan and their schedule about their job and about their life.

Don’t be a workhorse; there is no need for you to be like that. It is okay to be a workhorse in case you do something that will provide you with a number of merits of your activities, though it is stupid to be a workhorse for those people who enjoy their lives while you are doing their job.